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[quote=Anonymous]OP, It doesn't matter who is right or who is wrong. You are both suffering and by extension so are the kids and your are all in this together.

All you can do at this point is stop pitying yourself and start seeing a therapist or start a journal or come vent here, start meditation or something to ground yourself.

As of now, life can't be the way you want it to be so you need to be who you have to be to make it work.

He seems like a emotionally distant insensitive jerk but good thing is that at least he is working, isn't cheating and supporting family the way he knows how. For all we know he has health, depression, sexual, career or financial problems which make him see your day to day issues as insignificant and frustrating.

Let's assume that's the case. Where are his family and friends? How he gets his stress out?   Just be a gentle, pleasant, accepting presence for a while and see if results are any different. Don't complain, don't argue, don't demand, don't whine. May be try finding lost connection through sex.

If you can't change yourself or him and can't stay this way then just ask for divorce and deal with life.

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