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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is red flag behavior. If you marry, I can see him nickel and diming you on how much you spend, insisting you work even if you might want to take time off from your career to be with your children when they’re young, etc. I predict he’ll ask for a pre-nup if you get engaged. I get the sense he’s from a modest background because people who grew up with money don’t act this way. It’s trashy. What is your job? I’m curious if he’s only disrespectful about the amount you make or if it’s also what you do. [/quote] I’m in a healthcare tech job. ECG monitor tech. I could make more money if I went back to school but I enjoy my job. I make $60k. He’s a dentist and makes like $300k. [/quote] You should pay more like 15-20% of household expenses. For one, you need to save for your own house. How will you do that if you try to cover 40% of household expenses when you only make 15% of the combined income?[/quote]
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