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1. I'm still waiting on the swear words he used, OP. You said he badly insulted you. Surely it wasn't just "you can't afford it", right?

2. People who plan on moving in together should be fine with a discrepancy in income, and should have already agreed on a budget and whether or not to share what costs. I don't understand how this did not happen here.

3. When I moved in with my boyfriend, he paid for everything. When we had a kid, we were very low on money, and my grad school stipend went directly to the daycare. But that was only because he was paying the rent, the food, the car, and everything else.

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What’s funny is there was a thread not long ago calling the woman a dependent and freeloader for her fiancé paying for everything. The comments were really on her about not paying her fair share. Now it’s okay in this case to live off her boyfriend. This forum doesn’t make much sense. [/quote]

I don’t think she should live of him at all. I am a firm believer that adult women like men are capable of being independent adults and don’t need to be taken care of like a child. I don’t think a woman’s job is to take on all domestic responsibility nor is it a man’s job to take on all financial responsibility. I still don’t think he insulted her by passing over houses she can’t afford. I am also fine with him paying more if he wants a more expensive vacation spot then he can afford. I think this relationship is doomed![/quote]

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