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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just move to a smaller house. Also [b]why does she have to work at that level of household money? [/b]If she wants to help her kids why doesn't she stay home for a time? They are twins. 10 years will go by and she can go back to work. Meanwhile you will have more say on the expenses. She will have to use the time she has with the kids. She can watch or read whatever training she wants for the kids while they are at preschool and then be with the kids in the afternoon. Being more around other moms may also soften her a bit. Give her a debit card to use each month with a set amount on it till she reins in her spending. I hope you don't want your kids growing up in a divorced household. That doesn't seem to serve anyone. [/quote] It is in OP’s interest if she works for multiple reasons. For one, working is less opportunity to spend out boredom. For two, it reduces potential future alimony if they do divorce. For three, she probably would still outsource all that stuff even if she were home.[/quote]
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