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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm glad you're looking at this with clarity, OP. You need to pay for a lawyer surreptitiously, to receive the best advice for your state of residence, and if your husband is the sort to look at joint expenses, you need to find a way to pay discreetly. Do NOT let your husband suspect you know until you hatch the best financial plan with your lawyer. I hate to say this, but lots of women don't have their best financial interests at heart when they discover cheating and contemplate divorce. Keep your eye on the prize - ie, long-term financial wellbeing for your children and yourself. [/quote] This and make copies now of all financials you know of everything you own. Put it in a safe place he won't find. Also pick up a bunch of $25 and $50 Visa cards at the grocery store in case he tries to cut off funding. Hopefully both your names are on big items like the house and bank accounts. I'd also open a Credit card just in your name do not tell him. [/quote]
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