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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Slightly different perspective here. All of my US kids are lifers, so maybe that's why I come from a different place. Daily life at US is, despite the advertised virtues, short on the Quaker values implied to be at the core of the school's identity. The virtue signaling is over the top.

It's all relative to what other schools may be like. I don't know any other school so cannot speak to that. But my view is that the school's policies around academics (teacher's interactions with students) are draconian. Definitely not warm.

Also, the school's recent turn of focus to sports has undermined the atmosphere of academic excellence. That, again, just in my opinion, has suffered.

Socially, based on what I have heard from my kids over the years and what some acquaintances have shared, there's as much of a mean-kid culture at Sidwell as at any other school. There are the popular kids, the ahtletes, the mean girls, the 'try hards', and the senior whose mom is on the Board and by all accounts should have been kicked out right now for a few nefarious acts, not to mention running the (against the school policy) poker enterprise in the senior center.  And sure, the basketball playoffs are good-spirited. They're the playoffs and attendance at any sporting events at Sidwell do not draw the kids who are not part of the 'in' crowd, or even the generally happy kids.

Have my kids come out with a good education? They graduated (as recently as last year) seem to have. But do I think it is any different than elsewhere, no. [/quote]

TL; DR - my kids can’t actually hack it and it’s good I paid the money to get them in early when it’s easier. [/quote]

I’m the op who said this op was more accurate. Our dc entered in 9th was highly successful - they could 100% cut it. The place is not warm at all. Very draconian - Senior year the families that gushed at the senior year meeting for worship event were the uber wealthy long timers that Bryan courted - those people all had  kids who got into Ivy League on their family connections while taking easiest classes possible. It was gross. They have no clue what the school is really like because they don’t face the same wall (or hand in the face) others do and (except a few) their kids aren’t taking the hardest classes with the teachers who compete with each other to get the label of hardest class in the school.

Again - my dc did great - so no sour grapes. Education is high level but it is not a good ‘school’ - teens need and deserve more out of school thanks grinding out work. [/quote]

Your entire post reads like sour grapes. There are unhooked Sidwell students admitted to Ivy+ colleges every year who did not taken the hardest classes in every subject, every year. Sorry things didn’t work out that way for your kid. Btw, I don’t think your child did “great” by your standards. If they did, you would not have written this bitter post. [/quote]

DP.  Your unkindness and rejection of other perspectives is exactly what we hate about Sidwell. There are some serious pieces of work among the parent body.

We have children at other schools and agree that Sidwell’s balance between pressure and joy leans heavily toward pressure and less joy. My son teases his sister by calling Sidwell “Sadwell, No Friends.”

Our daughter thrives as much as it’s possible to do there and she would not want to leave. Knowing what we know now though we would have encouraged her to go elsewhere.

We have not been thrilled with Bryan’s leadership and the level of ruthlessness among some of the families is impressive in a not good way. [/quote]

Too bad, so sad(well). 🤣

Hopefully, your family chooses “best fit” over prestige when selecting a college for your daughter. I’m positive the writing was on the wall before she enrolled that Sidwell wouldn’t be a great fit for her. You guys chose to ignore the signs. [/quote]

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