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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]1. You sit at the bar, right? Do you walk in and walk out if the bar has no seats and/or the bar only has one open seat, which means you have to squeeze in tightly between two groups? I think I'd be deeply uncomfortable eating with randoms that close to me on both sides. I never sit at the bar. Because I don't drink. I only order ice water. 2. What do you do if the bar has no TV? I assume with or without TV, you just play on your phone most of the time? And if no TV, you basically play on your phone the entire time? If there's a TV, at least you can look up and let it occupy chunks of your time. See #1, but I don't use my phone during meals (except at the end to calculate the tip) - I bring a book. If I were you traveling, I'd bring a Kindle or iPad or whatever to read. 3. Do you tend to eat really quickly when alone? While you're eating, and in-between bites, do you look around or look straight ahead? I don't see any reason to pause, I think I'd just hoover up my food and quickly pay. I just eat normally. I am not ashamed of eating alone. I eat at a normal pace and read. If there is interesting people-watching I'll look, but generally people are boring so I ignore for the most part. 4. Sort of related to 3, do you give you credit card when you order to speed up cashing out and your exit? No. There's NO RUSH. I am not eating at some packed restaurant where people are waiting 45 minutes for a table. [/quote] Thank you. Yes, I'm overthinking! Sorry for a probing question: Do you still read on your iPad after your food has arrived? Like you're eating with dominant hand and swiping and scrolling with the other hand? Or do you put away the reading device when the main course arrives? I guess I still don't get how to pace myself while dining alone. When you're out eating conversation happens between bites. I don't know what you're doing if you pause while solo, which suggests, to me, I'd just eat super quickly.[/quote] Just do whatever you want. Eating "super quickly" is not great for digestion. My book is to the right of my plate (i'm a lefty). I eat, read, think, look up, chew, read, eat, whatever. You really ARE overthinking. [/quote]
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