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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]All of a sudden… Ugh! I’d inquire as to what changed.
Also, maybe suggest he cook. Or simply cook for yourself. 
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We just got married. We lived together while engaged but he was gone most weeks for work. He‘s in a different job and now we eat dinner together every night.

He can’t and doesn’t care to cook. He has no interest in ever trying. [/quote]

People who don’t cook don’t get to complain about the food. Eat it or starve.[/quote]

Agreed.  He can't throw stones if he's unwilling to share the load.[/quote]

Agree.
Funny how she/OP should improve her cooking skills but he gets to bypass cooking or learning to
As adults we all have to do stuff we don't like -- no option to simply skip things that are challenging or new.

Red flag

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My husband and I were definitely not great at cooking when we first started living together out of college, but we learned together.  If he'd demanded I learned to cook without him also putting in the effort, I wouldn't have married him.

I mean, my Dad would make his famous lasagna for parties, my granddad would take us fishing and then cook a fish dinner with us.  [b]Men who can't do basic tasks and refuse to learn are just pathetic.[/b][/quote]

I agree and commented as such above. However, just to play devil's advocate, what about women who refuse to learn how to do car maintenance, house/yard upkeep, etc?

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dp.. yes, women need to know how to do that, too. But, certain tasks require brute strength, which women don't have women.

That said, DH has taught DD how to change a tire.  I do yard work and have fixed things around the house, like our vacuum, had to get a rubber tube to replace the washing machine rubber tube.  [/quote]
... ^ which women don't have.   :oops: [/quote]

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