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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]She's right. She's not the one who's doing the cheating. His is the home wrecker in his marriage, not her. [/quote] I just can't with this argument or people like you who perpetuate it - have you never heard to treating others like you would like to be treated? There is a basic human contract not to deliberately inflict harm on other people (in this case, she is participating in wrecking another family). No wonder the US is in such a bad place right now.[/quote] I think the only people who perpetuate this trope are the cheaters themselves. No decent person would think this.[/quote] I think it's a push back to people blaming the woman for all affairs. If the man is the one who is married, he is MORE responsible for breaking up his family. Not solely, but more. Yes history has a habit of blaming the woman every time so I think the pendulum is swinging back in the other direction on that now. Everyone involved is responsible but I think understanding where this reaction is coming from is more helpful than saying "no decent person would think this." You keyboard warriors are so morally righteous it's annoying. And not helpful to people like OP.[/quote] The fact that people can’t see that two people can be at fault is insane. You know restaurants get charged for over serving someone who then drinks and drives. Two people can be at fault from the same crime.[/quote]
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