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[quote=Anonymous][quote] have thought about this kind of thing a lot and I would try everything possible to be kind to the AP/“stepmom” and as civil as possible to your ex.
In fact, I’d have a conversation with AP where you point out that you have no issue with HER because she did not have any role in your vows, and you realize that a man can only cheat if he wants to. And you are trying to put that aside and co-parent, but that doesn’t have anything to do with her so you want to have a good relationship with her so that your kids can feel comfortable and safe when they are with her.
I’m sorry OP. This sucks so bad and the best thing for your kids is for you to get along with this woman as best you can for as long as she’s in their lives.[/quote]

This is generally good advice - but I would have to leave out the part about not blaming her at all because this isn’t a zero sum game and I definitely would blame her for knowingly dating a married man. That’s just breaks the code of humanity.[/quote]

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