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[quote=Anonymous]Slightly different perspective here from male boss having what most would consider an EA , with female subordinate of same age, both married with no glaring issues in relationship.  There are plenty of people who want to enjoy newness or variety in their social life without cheating or even distracting from their primary relationship.  In particular in the world of remote work this can often happen with minimal distractions where colleagues only see each other physically a few times per year.

People may choose to drink beer, surf porn, or watch sports during the work day as well (all real things we saw happen in our work places particularly during covid).  Not saying that every opposite sex friendship is appropriate and above board but generally the line is a lot murkier than what DCUM makes it out to be.  Unless there is blatant harassment by one party or it crossed the line into clearly sexual activity , this is far from the worst distraction one can have during the workday (and probably less awkward and gossip inciting than doing the same in your kid / parent social circle, which for most of us is the main thing outside of work) .

All that being said the fact OP is talking for 3+ hours with someone 10 years younger raises some red flags, as there isn’t the base of shared experiences there may be with someone similar age (and super odd he’s devoting this time to you rather than dating online or out and about ). [/quote]

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