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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]I don’t expect you to understand my approach as a parent, because unlike you, I don’t love my children based on conditions like their merits. [/quote]

I'm not the OP but FFS, if this is your attitude I'm sure you're not a great parent. [/quote]

Whatever you say. It’s for my kids to judge not you. I’m happily take any feedback they have for me, but I don’t care about yours. I just know both my daughters love each other immensely and wish the best for each other. That’s through hard work. I’m content.

BTW, I’m here to help op to understand there are things she can’t change, and it would be evil to wish anything bad happen to her sister. The only thing she could do is to stop comparing and focus on her own happiness. I believe in two things: mindset change and taking actions, that will always help you get out of any tricky situations. Though I don’t know her, I hope she could find peace and content in her life. The whole point of sharing my story is to say I empathize with her, because I know it is not easy to grow up with a sibling who does lots of things better than you. But if you could shift your focus to your own life and be a cheerleader for your sister, you become a more powerful person. And hopefully your sister does the same. Good luck![/quote]

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