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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a wife.  I am quite reserved and polite with men.  I also refuse to take the hint or be even slightly flirty with men.

When I meet a couple, I make it a point to only be as friendly/polite to the male, as I think the wife would accept.  My attention and warmth is focussed on the woman.

With women, I try to underplay my positives. I dress modestly, and I certainly do not put myself in a position where they would feel that they need to compete with me.  My conversation is always light and I show interest in the women.

My experience has been that men are not complicated and women are.  Men can be pests, but women are toxic jealous competitors.   I keep quite about accomplishments, wealth, SES, travel stories, conspicuous consumption. Women are very good at sussing out info by how you dress or even random innocuous comments.

My go-to entertainment at parties etc is to spend time with kids and old people. [/quote]

So you view all women as insecure and competition.  A lot of self-loathing here.  [/quote]

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