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[quote=Anonymous]You’re fighting the wrong battles and not really thinking of solutions at all. The fact is you can’t depend on your husband. Don’t waste your breath being upset over any of it. He won’t change. 
You need a nanny or part time household help to remove any cleaning, cooking, etc. If you need to pause college savings to do this right now, then so be it.  Use this energy to continue building your career and seeing a therapist.

The therapist will help with the disconnect between your previous notions of family life and reality (which you’ve since found out was bullshit. That is pretty unnerving to uncover your life was pretty much a lie). You need to reset your expectations. The point of this is for you to go to therapy- NOT to change your husband.

You’ll likely be getting divorced, as it sounds like he can’t even support the family financially and doesn’t care emotionally, checked out mentally. What is the point in being married to a boy who is contributing absolutely nothing? Start getting dead inside so you can methodically move through this process without drama. Why waste your energy on him when you have kids who clearly need support. They are more important than your husband.[/quote]

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