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Reply to "husband and I handle disagreements differently. Need serious advice"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP sounds so childish and exhausting [/quote] Not to me, she sounds perfectly fine. You sound like an a-hole though. [/quote] NP. OP sounds childish because she thinks her needs/wants are more important than her husband's. Even her telling of the stories is exhausting. I'd disengage from her as well, and I do think the silent treatment is a form of abuse, but it doesn't sound like she's not pushing for it.[/quote] I agree. Op sounds like she digs and digs and digs and it’s ok in her mind because she “needs reassurance” and he pulls further away which makes her more angry etc. very needy annoying dynamic. [/quote] Yup. Been in this situation before. My reaction was to also pull away and shut down. Thankfully we were just dating and my friends were able to point out how toxic our relationship was and how he wasn't a good match for me so I ended it. [/quote]
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