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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP sounds so childish and exhausting [/quote]

Not to me, she sounds perfectly fine. You sound like an a-hole though. [/quote]

NP. OP sounds childish because she thinks her needs/wants are more important than her husband's. Even her telling of the stories is exhausting. I'd disengage from her as well, and I do think the silent treatment is a form of abuse, but it doesn't sound like she's not pushing for it.[/quote]
+1 I don't think her DH is without fault, but OP sounds needy.[/quote]

Agreed.  She just sounds very whiny.   Maybe it's because I grew up with a parent who was very needy and kept pushing people's buttons, but I understand the reaction to just shut down and block someone out.  It's not healthy or kind, but I get why it happens.  Therapy probably didn't work for them because neither of them think they are in the wrong and want to change.  Her husband sounds like a jerk, but OP seems to be playing this weird spineless victim card but at the same time being needy and whiny and trying to get him to give her attention and reassurance when it sounds like he can't stand that.   It's not a healthy dynamic.  [/quote]

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