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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Sorry for the delay.

He is senior vice president of a healthcare company. He makes around $400k/yr. I’m a sonographer and make around $150k/yr. I often work OT and can make up to $180k.

2-4 kids is what I say, but we are realistically looking at having 2 kids. We know we want kids and at least 2. We can always decide later on how much we can handle.

I see myself working PT to raise my kids. [b]My boyfriend has talked about having kids and being an important role his their lives.[/b] He works hard now, with the hope to be able to attend all their important events, and be there daily. His dad also worked like crazy and was a very active father for them. He envisions this as his life.

His hours come with the job and the hefty pay. That’s just reality. Most people who see this much work a lot. I’ve let some old people get in my ear but won’t anymore. I love him and I think we will have a wonderful future together raising kids and being in love. [/quote]

Talk is cheap. When he tells you he will leave work to be somewhere at a specific time - does he do it? When he says he won't work on a Saturday or over vacation - does he stick to that? When he says it's important to him to spend time with you - does he make it happen every time?[/quote]

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