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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How are you even doing this once they are adults? Are all of you saying you do this using paying for the phone as a manipulation tactic? [/quote] We are not doing this once they are adults. We are restricting when they are under-18 and in high school.[/quote] +1[/quote] But the OP asks “what are you doing once they leave for college” Is everyone ignoring the question and just stating what they do for their minor teen? [/quote] The op posed a rhetorical question and never expected an answer. More likely, she was just trying to assuage her guilt over letting her children have unrestricted TikTok access and is now seeing the negative outcomes from her decision. [/quote] Yeah, that seems likely. I noticed she has not returned to her own thread, as far as I can tell.[/quote] OP here. Ive been reading. My question was not rhetorical and my teens do not have unrestricted access. I’m genuinely asking. No one is really answering though. Most of my older teens friends already have unlimited access so there is nothing for their parents to change. As usually, the parents commenting on DCUM do not match my lived experience. I noticed this back when all the moms in my mom’s group quit nursing at 6 months and flipped the car seats around at age 1. DCUM is not my reality and I end feeling sort of an island in real life. [/quote] I thought I answered? Heavy restrictions through high school and then they make their own decisions in college. So far, they seem to be making good ones since they have many other interests besides social media. Did you just not like my answer?[/quote]
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