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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Look if you are going to date or marry someone with kids, you are going to have to accept that this person has a relationship in which you really are not welcome. You can’t expect to always be included or take priority unless you are with a jerk who dumps his/ her kids. You need to go in eyes wide open that your partner will have time and financial obligations or desires toward his or her children that don’t include you. 
OP escalated things by including GF in the family holiday and family vacation. GF is happy that adult daughter doesn’t want any more financial help from father because now it’s hers! OP you landed a bad girlfriend and are giving up a daughter. Good job![/quote]

"Step parents seem to be naive or selfish thinking they can impose on the pre existing parent relationship or dictate control how it goes. This results in partner choosing between his or her original children and the new partner."

Then you are 100% against divorce, right? You are 100% against any widow/widower getting remarried? [/quote]

I just heard this recently.

When someone marries, they create a Corportation. When they divorce the corporation is not dissolved it's just 2 subsidiaries of the original company.  When you meet someone new they have their own corporation. Sometimes you merge them, but mergers are difficult. Many run them as 2 separate companies. When you are dating you are not merging, you are 2 different entities. Don't get confused, your employees don't want to go work for the other company to be nice.  [/quote]

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