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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There’s a 99% chance that this wouldn’t be happening if you didn’t have a gf, amirit?  She wants a relationship with you that excludes the gf.  Not sure how healthy that is for your relationship.[/quote]

Seriously? I most families I know of parents still see their adult children without the adult child's significant other, even sometimes once adult child is engaged or married. It is not an unreasonable request. There are even families with destructive sibling dynamics and parents see those siblings separately. He should be able to carve out time to see his adult daughter for lunch without his girlfriend assuming he has a healthy/not codependent/not enmeshed relationship with his girlfriend. This should not be a big deal.[/quote]

Where do you get the notion that the father isn’t carving out time to see his daughter sans gf?  This situation sounds more like the daughter wants zero contact with the gf vs. a healthy mix of solo contact/couple contact.[/quote]

Would you rather be completely estranged or just see your adult child without your girlfriend now and then? Small steps.[/quote]

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