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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The crazy thing about this thread to me is that I would never do a lot of the potentially helpful things people mention because it would mean telling someone what happened, and I would never do that. And it's been 40 years. I wonder to what extent we could be divided into two groups - those who can talk about it [b]and those who are too ashamed[/b] - and what effect that has on the possibility of moving on. [/quote] Why won't you tell someone? Even a therapist? They won't judge you. [/quote] Not PP, but shame is a very powerful silencer. And someone being a therapist is not a guarantee that they will respond appropriately. That said, I urge the PP to consider someday trying it. My counselor never pushed or prodded me to share more, but was there when I had enough trust to take baby steps towards it. We have spent most of our time together navigating the symptoms of what happened, not the story of it.[/quote]
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