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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sorry, I’m not clear on the situation. The cabin is owned outright currently, yes? There are no other assets? The plan is to keep the cabin in the family. Would the other siblings buy your dh out?[/quote] OP here: [b]Sorry, I’m not clear on the situation[/b] - DH wants us to contribute to a property he will inherit. In my state, inheritance or gifts are not subject to community property. I am uncomfortable contributing household income to a real property I will have zero entitlement to if we divorce. [b]The cabin is owned outright currently, yes?[/b] - Owned outright - yes. [b]There are no other assets? [/b] - MIL has maybe 30K in savings, which will go quickly with 12K of move-in costs. [b]Would the other siblings buy your dh out?[/b] - No. One is flat broke and unsure how even he would afford the ongoing costs. [/quote] You and the other sibling will probably get stuck paying for the broke sibling. Selling the house to pay for MIL’s care makes the most sense financially. [/quote]
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