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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sometimes I'm envious of older generations that didn't have to deal with social media.  There's nothing more frustrating than meeting a seemingly sweet "girl next door" type only to discover that her Instagram/Tik Tok is full of thirst trapping or attention-seeking behavior.   It seems that social media narcissism is one of these things that my generation simply has to "deal" with.  If a woman is reasonably attractive and under 30, the temptation to seek attention on social media is too strong to resist.

I recently met a woman at a networking event. [b] She checks all the boxes but she has 2K+ followers on Instagram.  She posts at least 5 stories per day. [/b] Her posts aren't overly scandalous but she does have a decent number of swimsuit pics.  If she seems okay in person, would the excessive posting and bikini pics keep you from dating her?[/quote]

Yuck. No thanks to that.

My brother married someone who has a big need for constant social validation.  Guess who takes care of everything (kids, house, meals, sports) after working a full day? And all her girls' trips?  HE DOES. 
Furthermore, it's like she has split personalities and is so fake. With family she's outgoing but more grounded. With 1000s friends - she accidently put us both on the wrong text thread one holiday week - she's over-drinking, cursing, super opinionated, up all night.

For her recent 40th birthday she had 10+ friends fly in to visit her during a school week and she booked a $20k Airbnb house and vegged out there with them. Guess who drove over all the food and games and alcohol to "set it up"? My brother. And then he went back home to the kids and his job.

Yes, she's a SAHM. with ADHD. [/quote]

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