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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Can you tell him to stop bringing his girlfriend home and to events. My kids aren't that old yet but I'm already annoyed thinking about the possibility. [/quote]

Of course a parent can do that, and it's excellent strategy to build a relationship with your adult kid where they want limited contact with you[/quote]

How adult are they at 21? Are you done paying for college and their living expenses?[/quote]

So rules are different if they've a full ride?[/quote]

I get, I guess, the my house my rules sentiment, but I will never understand the need to control your children's behavior until they are completely financially independent. Baffling [/quote]
The my house my rules thing just seems like grasping at control straws. Your sweet baby is grown and doesnt need you anymore, so you try and exert your "parental control" by doing this. Seems silly to me.

Same room is fine with us. [/quote]

It depends on religious and cultural values as well. What's good for the goose, isn't necessarily by default good for the gander or even other geese.[/quote]

Still nobody has mentioned a value just rules.[/quote]

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