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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We married at 26/27 after 1 year of dating and 1 year of engagement. We had our child when I was 40. We had a 12 year honeymoon of international travel, parties, fine dining, devoting ourselves in our dream careers. We also bought a house and established ourselves financially. My DH also was able to do an ivy league fellowship fir a graduate degree. We had some help with fertility but I ended up conceiving naturally. Our timeline worked great for us. [b]Friends who had kids young divorced.[/b] Someone told me to put it off, because once you have kids, it's 20 years of sacrificing your own goals. I had had a rough childhood and wanted love, fun, pleasure and travel. So waiting worked for us. [/quote] As I get older, I realize a big reason for this is that a 50 year old whose kids have launched has more options than a 50 year old with young children. [/quote]
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