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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If other people ask me to solve their problems,  they might not like the solution, which is tough love. 
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Jesus Christ, this is how you think about the person who birthed and raised you?
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A mom can be a mom devoid of birthing a child. Have you heard of adoption?[/quote]
Doesn’t matter. Adopted or bio, parents, especially mothers have no value and if they need help they should simply be kicked to the curb. Of course if they have money, the Adult Child is entitled to it, no matter how awful or distant they’ve been. All parents must be perfect at all times, and all adult children have no responsibility for anything, ever. It’s the DCUM hive mind.[/quote]

That's not true.  Parents have no value if they can't admit their mistakes, be accountable, and do better. None of us asked for perfection. We needed accountability and humility[/quote]

If you’re referring to me, I’m not at that stage of life. I’m blessed with good fortune and loving family that will be part of my care. As someone who has cared for many seniors, I’m just disgusted by the selfishness and judgment so often inflicted by DCUM commenters. The subject of this thread was described as a good mother. Like most people, she was imperfect. Betting OP wasn’t perfect either. Nor the rest of the leave her to rot crew. 
From the sound of things, it looks like that PP was a real piece of work and her adult children don't want anything to do with her[/quote][/quote]

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