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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Not true. I knew I was settling at the time. I had broken up with my true love due to distance and decided I wouldn’t find that again. When XH started pursuing me, hard, I just gave in.[/quote]

When you write "broken up with my true love", do you mean he dumped you because you were no longer geographically close? If he was your true love, why did you (or he) move away or not move to be closer? The arrogance in your statement "when XH started pursuing me" makes me sad for him, as we would get a different story from him regarding who gave in.

[quote]PP here. I also got to the "gave in" stage. I knew I was "settling." I also had a mother who just wanted me to get married ASAP. I had much better options.[/quote]

If you had better options, honey, you would have taken them. He is sorry he did not match with one of his "better options."

Truly, these posters' self-delusion is on full display in this thread. Both of them acquired a spouse as good as they would ever find, but their egos are too vast to allow them to face the truth. 
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