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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is she willing to go to therapy with you? We don't know her side and my concern is based on what you say everyone will tell you she is a brat, she is awful, be strict, don't let her come home, tell her to grow up, etc and it will push you farther apart.

She may be entitled. She may be going through a rude phase. It could be you just need to learn to have boundaries. It could also be we aren't hearing what is triggering her and there is a whole other side to this.

You have every right to vent and if venting here helps, great. If you truly want to know you tried everything to have a better relationship, I would also suggest working with professionals. If she won't go, then you can get strategies and ideas. If my relationship with my child was a mess, I would want to know I tried everything to make it better so if things fall apart I know I did my part.

Yes, vent, but don't allow comments here to let you dehumanize her as much as you feel she has dehumanized you. [/quote]

OP here thank you!
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