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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just stop making plans.  I told DH I'm responsible for plans with my side, he is responsible for his. Simple.  His family blames me for him not making plans and ai look at him (in front of them) and say if Bob wanted to do that he would have arranged it - clearly he didn't want to.[/quote]

This is dumb because logistically it is much better for one person to be the point person for all inter and intra family logistical planning.  This avoids the two of you accidentally scheduling conflicting events.  If you want him to be in charge of his family then what happens when he schedules thanksgiving and Christmas at his parents house and you scheduled one or both at your parents?  Will you defer to his planning?  Of course not you will over rule it and say he is a misogynist relic of the patriarchy.

The fact that it's not 50/50 as you were told it should be in feminism 101 just means that the people who come up with that stuff aren't actually responsible for making anything important happen.[/quote]

Hahahahha, LOL. Sorry your son just isn’t that into you. -NP[/quote]

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