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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Woah, there are some extremely nasty responses here- lay off of OP a bit, will you?[/quote]

No. Her post was nasty.[/quote]

I don't think it was nasty so much as envious, while also realizing on some level that she should NOT be envious because they might be struggling financially. Ultimately op has to get to her own secure spot of : this is how I spend, and it is the best way for me. And she needs to forget how others spend their money. That being said, if there is a specific item the cousin is wearing she covets, then there is no shame in saving up and acquiring that item. I find it useful to think the following: I am feeling this emotion right now. What is it teaching me about what I am dissatisfied with and what I can improve? For instance coveting a friend's really nice apartment way too much made me realize I wanted to live in a different place. I couldn't afford that place, but I could afford some of its attributes (new, bright, lots of space) so I made it my business to look hard for that within my own means for myself instead of focusing on the jealousy. It's not a good space to dwell, bad for op and bad for the relationship.[/quote]

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