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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you didn't do anything wrong that I can see. But it's important that you have your ears open to what people are telling you, even if it comes wrapped in an annoying package or from a source you think is biased. Remember, his ex knows him *very* well.

If your DH shirks as a parent and work is always his excuse, if he doesn't adhere to his custody agreement as written, if he doesn't proactively make sure he's handling the boring admin of parenting, then things are going to be difficult. Right now you're feeling attacked, but you've gotten some good advice here. Take what's useful to you. [/quote]

Not all people can take off.  No reason why stepmom shouldn’t stay home.  Maybe mom is the problem and not dad.  She’ll look for any reason to be mean. [/quote]

That's not the point. The point is this particular incident isn't necessarily problematic (though it really depends on the specifics of the custody agreement and whether school/medical stuff was handled). The point is this may be symptomatic of a larger problem, and that OP should keep her eyes wide open and be open to the possibility that even a totally awful, crazy, horrid ex-wife might have a point now and then, and might be telling OP something that she could benefit from knowing.[/quote]

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