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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's all about karma - expect that the energy you give out, some day you will receive; to you APs who are with the DHs who are cheating, expect some day you may be cheated on, too.

To the DHs who are cheating - why not just tell your wife you want an open marriage? Why the secrets?  Why not just be transparent with your wife about what you want, so she can have options too? IT is the lying that is the worst part of it, IMO.  IT is a cliche that the cheated on wife has some how let her self go and is unaccomplished - think of Maria Shriver and Arnold Schwartzenager and the nanny- there are plenty of accomplished, sexy, gorgeous wives who are cheated on by their husbands; because it is not about whether their wife is quality or not, it is that some people have a compulsion to cheat, or may be cheating on their mistresses - they are putting out an energy - and if their wives knew who they really were, they might not want to be in that relationship. By keeping things secret/lying, a DH is taking away the DW's choice.  By being an AP, you are complicit in this deception. [/quote]

Most wives can't handle a conversation about an open marriage, let alone the practice of one.[/quote]

maybe not but they can leave.[/quote]

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