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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There seems to be a lot of keyboard avengers on this thread.

1. The coach is not communicating with my kid via text 1on1

2. Although I know that he's communicating with 2 players via text I don't know if parernts are or aren't included on the communications.

I feel that the communication is inappropriate and that it's creating favoritism for certain players. But without knowing with 100% certainty that it's 1on1 coach to player communication this is not something that can be escalated to SafeSport.

If we're able to leave the team and play somewhere else I have considered creating a SafeSport case just to make the guy think twice about texting with children even if parents are included. [/quote]

You don’t need to know. Safe sport will investigate and if it’s kosher so be it, but if anything wrong is happening, they’ll deal help deal with it. If there is smoke, you pull a smoke alarm, you don’t just say “well, I’d pull the alarm if I knew for sure there was a fire…but I don’t know for sure, so I’ll just mind my own business.”[/quote]
Your thought process is reasonable but coaches and clubs are vindictive. I need to see the fire before pulling the smoke alarm.

If we leave the team/club I might file an anonymous report. Just being investigated would likely scare the coach and leadership straight and stop all text communications across the board.[/quote]

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