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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m glad it’s not the norm everywhere. The judge should insure that the kids are coming first, not an egotistical parent who wants to play games like tug of war. Kids need stability. [/quote] There’s a lot of opportunities to avoid a judge making this decision. There are folks that specialise in parental mediation. The reality is that it sometimes requires some short term sacrificing, but it’s a long game of showing up for your kids. I hate the time my kids are with my spouse. I feel like I am missing out on so much. But the reality is this is their life as what matters to them is what their time with me is like. That is what I have control over in the short term. There may come a day I’ll need to fight on their behalf, but just like in a successful marriage, you have to let a lot of stuff go. [/quote]
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