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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No, he doesn't get the choice and it was horrible to pull them out and move them but that's what happens.  You should have stayed married till the youngest was 18.[/quote]

What a disgusting response here! 😠

No one should have to remain in an unhappy marriage in this day + age!!

Plus if you read OP’s post - he says his ex-wife was bipolar.
Since she wasn’t being effectively treated for it &gt; I can only imagine how hellish living w/someone who has that disease can be.

OP, I am so sorry that you have to experience all of this.

It is wholly unfair.[/quote]

Who is the arbiter of whether or not she was being effectively treated?

My ex left me on a similar basis, even while I’ve not been diagnosed with anything but anxiety and depression. I have a long history of therapy, meds. But he never took the time to work with me on the external, life stressors and just manipulated me into emotions reactions where I discredited myself. It was stressful and the more stressed I got the more unstable I was.

We’re separated now and with the space came the clarity of how he operates and able to maintain proper distance and boundaries for my sanity. I’m happier, he’s happier. The kida were sad at first but have come around and enjoy the fact that their parents aren’t fighting.

We are able to manage a 50/50 schedule for a 10 and 14, but we moved to a LCOL city (we were moving anyway) and able to live quite close so the kids don’t have to mange two lives and can come and go to each others’ houses as needed. 
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