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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NP. Same, OP, same. The posters who are suggesting clean outs and periodic sneaky trash removal have no idea what they are dealing with. I have no ideas for you. 
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What's going to happen is you will do nothing while they're alive (because they will fight you every step of the way) and you will deal with the entire multiple-decade hoard of total crap after they're dead.

BTDT twice.[/quote]

Estate attorney here. Old clients talk often about planning to give away or throw out most of their stuff in order to make it easier for family members after their death. I always advise them not to do this. They should continue living surrounded by their belongings that give them joy. What difference does it make whether ithe junk removal company will have two haul away one or two truckloads after their death.[/quote]

What? People tell you they want to declutter and you tell them not to? That’s awful advice. Are you a hoarder yourself?[/quote]

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