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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He’s horrible. It will only get worse if you stay. Lots of emotional abuse and gaslighting.[/quote]

+1. He may be cheating. My DH started acting like this when he started having an affair and we’re now divorcing.  Consider yourself lucky, you dodged a bullet since you aren’t married. 
Go find yourself a nice stable man[/quote]

There are two issues.  One, he wants to marry a fellow traveler.  I get that.  In olden days, the conventional wisdom was to be skeptical about dating Jewish men because this preference often won in the end.

The second issue is the gaslighting and bad behavior.  This guy, for whatever reason, is a mess.  Run away.[/quote]

+1 this isn't about religion. It's about character. If it weren't this thing it would be another thing. Enjoy Japan and feel free to do a quick rebound fling while you were out of the country.[/quote]

Disagree.

This is about his religion and he’s deep in his head about guilt from his parents and future kids and the holocaust and Judaism.

This is a him thing. Sad that whatever you do say or do is getting twisted into some lies he or his father are saying about you. Thats some dumb roping mechanism of his.

Doubt he’s cheating. You probably get along well and now he’s dropping the You’re Not Jewish card. Plus making up disrespect BS. Likely to push you away.

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