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[quote=Anonymous]I’m a man who had an abusive and severely mentally ill ex, and one thing about her is she has a massive victim mentality. She never accused me of DV or anything but when I broke up with her she wouldn’t quit harassing me and telling everyone how terrible a person I was. Initially she acted nice towards me to try and win me back but when it became clear I wasn’t taking the bait she did a complete 180. Some people are addicted to victimhood. Abusers love to use victimhood as a way to mask their own bad behaviors. I think it’s getting worse now that we as a culture have become obsessed with SJW/woke politics and the idea of everything being a story of oppressor vs oppressed. [/quote]
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