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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. So how does one help children post divorce move on?  
This scenario followed all the rules--didn't date immediately post divorce, didn't bring in woman after woman into the kids lives, didn't introduce kids till things were serious, woman doesn't spend the night, kids are not part of the scene but yet the relationship is very committed and has been for years. We even spend holidays apart so no one feels threatened.  There is no reason to feel threatened because we have prioritized the kids/their well being and not changing things for them.  But ex wife has made it her mission to paint me and my kids as the wrong doers because she hasn't been able to move on and accept. When they tantrum about my kids, they will say "it's unfair to mom".

So how does one help in this situation?[/quote]

Address it with them.   Did you cheat on mom or why did you divorce?  Tell them that you’re sorry it’s making their mom unhappy but you cannot fix her happiness now.  [/quote]

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