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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I've been stalked by my medical providers before (yes, more than once: 2 psychs and a physio). This is not the sexy fantasy you may want it to be.

The sort of 'professional' who would egregiously violate their code of ethics this way is not the kind of person you want to be involved with. And, if/when they become creepily obsessed with you, and you want them to stop, you'll face the deification of whitecoats when you try to make any sort of report about their behavior. People will accuse you of lying, golddigging, "trying to destroy a good person's reputation"... all the while believing the offender's story because "they're a doctor!" The thin white line works a lot like the thin blue line, and not in your favor.

The moment you recognize this is happening, you need to switch providers. Immediately. And if you feel safe, make a report to their licensing board (though, again, don't expect much from the other doctors who review those). No amount of physical attractiveness should outweigh the amorality of this behavior. The lack of ethics is a MASSIVE red flag.

Avoid!!![/quote]

Um, yeah.  It’s so hard when doctor after doctor stalks you.  It’s definitely not all in your head.[/quote]

See the part in my comment where I talked about how the average nobody would disbelieve you, even if you were brave enough to speak out?

It do be exactly the fsck like that sometimes.

PP, I don't like wishing ill on people, but I suspect I won't have to. May you be served your own brand someday, or watch someone you love suffer the way I had to, and may it soften your frozen heart and cynical mind. Doctors, like all people, can and do use their position of perceived authority to abuse people with less power.

And yes, it really did happen to me. Jerk.[/quote]

But two, count them - 2, psychologists? Not MDs. And, you are aware of transference,  right? I mean, everyone would need more facts here. [/quote]

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