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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s not a mentality, OP. It’s a disability. Educate yourself because sh***ing on people with ADHD does nothing since they already hate themselves. But by all means, revel in your superiority while your marriage falls apart. Hope “victory” feels good. [/quote]

Disagree. Yes they might have it harder but that just means they need to work harder to gain executive skills. Or medicate. [/quote]
Ah yes, the old “just work harder!” People with ADHD already are working five times as hard as neurotypicals just to not be homeless. Not saying OP’s DH can’t do better but OP sounds like one of those people who truly believe ADHD doesn’t exist and anyone who doesn’t function like her is lazy and inferior. [b]She sounds like a nightmare. [/b][/quote]

Honestly, why is ADHD considered the disorder?  Whatever perfectionism OP (and her many apologists in this thread) suffers from is clearly toxic and will undoubtedly negatively impact her relationships.  Why are people like OP not considered “disordered”?

(And if the dismissive term for men with ADHD is “lazy” then I submit that the equivalent dismissive term for women with perfectionism is “b! +ch”)[/quote]

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