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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OMG, I talk to her so darn much. It's actually crazy how much I hear from her. I had to tell her yesterday to please go to dad with her problems because I just couldn't hack it anymore.

That said, she's already been through an ER visit, a horrific roommate situation and then move, we've been sourcing stuff from the community for her new room (like fridge/microwave, TV, etc) so I have to connect her to them from 8 hours away and then yesterday she said she was very sick (likely sinus infection, but also something in her throat). Then, at the end of the day, she called to say she lost her ID. After paying $50, she of course got the email that her original ID had been found. Sonuva ;P

OMG, the drama, y'all - I need a break
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She doesn't sound ready to be off to college. She needs to clean up her own messes.

That sounds like covid.

What was the "horrific roommate situation?"[/quote]

I had her test for covid (negative) and also told her to have the Health Services test for strep as I know that is going around her school and her program. They looked at her and told her she was right, most likely sinus infection.

Roommate situation? Her now former roommates told her they were moving out, then I found out from the other moms (their moms, people - this situation was insane) their daughters' BS nonsense complaints about my child. Problems that absolutely could have been fixed by a sit down with the RA or even just a LITTLE communication by their kids with mine. The 2 others knew each other ahead of time and brought my kid in after meeting at orientation. My poor kid was so upset when they told her they wanted to move but gave her ZERO explanation as to why, she spun out a little. The situation got out of hand VERY quickly. I mean honestly, the entire thing went down over about 12 hours. My child spoke with the mental health person in student health but NO ONE from residence life was involved until my child went to the RD when these little snots just iced her out, still with ZERO explanation as to what was happening. By about midnight, a plan was already in place to move my daughter out. She's annoyed that SHE had to move when they were the ones who acted poorly, but she is currently living in a double with no roommate. Much nicer space and no roommate kicking my child out of her room the day after she was in the ER until 2 am so that roomie could have a quickie (daughter told me that little tidbit later)

Look, my kid is adjusting to being away from home. She trusts us and tells us a lot. It will get better. She is working on growing. She's had some crazy situations within just a few weeks. I have had some crazy stuff going on personally (including being rearended driving home from work on Monday), so by Tuesday, I was personally overwhelmed by everything. Yesterday and today are better. Yesterday she spoke with her father a couple times and gave me a break. Today we have been texting about packages that are coming her way, including her meds that the stupid mail-order pharmacy screwed up after I spent hours of my life making SURE they could mail them to her at school and giving them the school address that then arrived to our HOME address.

How about you stop judging by just one post on the internet and give kids away from home for the first time the benefit of the doubt?[/quote]

Sound like you all have a lot going on. Was your daughter the issue with the roomate drama?

What meds? [/quote]

"their daughters' BS nonsense complaints about my child."

No details here? [/quote]
DP
Why don't you jerky kids get back to your homework and stop trying to kick aom when she's down.

Sounds like a rocky start,  PP, but also sounds like it's looking up. Sounds like the dynamic of the other 2 knowing each other was not good for a three person situation. And maybe your kid is also on a learning curve here. Definitely good to be out of a situation where you get kicked out for a "quickie" while dealing with a sinus infection. Sounds like the new situation is an improvement.  Also, don't stress about things like a TV.  She doesn't need that. She can even survive without some other dorm items for a bit. Keep focusing on what's good about this change. Hang in there.[/quote]

Yes, she is on a learning curve, and I completely accept that.

Today she called crying because someone left a sharpie in one of the machines in the laundry room and now clothes may be ruined. Which, yeah, sucks all around. But, ugh. I told her to please call her father because I literally was too busy at that moment,

Yes, I think the two others knowing each other was the issue. The quickie situation was revealed to me after she moved and was after my child was at an er with a likely ovarian cyst until 2 in the morning the night before. The sinus infection was this week in the new room, and as I said, that was confirmed by student health who sent her back to rest and take meds.

She takes meds for ADHD, and trying to get those to her is a freaking nightmare. We are switching her to local treatment got that.

As for BS issues, I kid you not that one mother complained that my child looked at hers weird. I wish I were kidding. I nearly threw my damn phone across the room. I showed my husband and he just shook his head. Then to find out the other roommate was getting around on a very small campus…seriously, good riddance [/quote]

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