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[quote=Anonymous]It’s not wrong that you feel violated, but it’s not sexual and it’s not abuse. I have to hold my kids in a bear hug to get vaccines - but that’s not abuse it’s for their own safety. I am sure it was scary and uncomfortable. I got UTIs a lot as a kid and I remember crying and hyperventilating on the toilet because I was afraid to pee - and then having urinary accidents well into late elementary years until I got PT because my bladder and pelvic floor were wrecked from all time spent holding urine. Yes it sucks to have adults always looking at and talking to you about your genitals and bathroom functions. We also know more about how to treat these issues now than in the 80s and 90s. [/quote]
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