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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My kids are smart and athletic kids. Everything comes to them easily BUT they do not put forth maximum effort, ever. As a result, my dd is a decent runner only, despite having the potential to be a fantastic runner. She shows up to practice, does her thing, but doesn't push herself. She gives it 70%. It's the same thing with school: getting them to take any APs is like pulling teeth, and they so far refused the hard ones, despite doing very well in the APs they do take. They know it is going to affect college, we have pushed, explained and got nowhere. They just don't want to work hard. Do you think this is just personality or that I should push them harder even? [/quote]

Do you want a relationship with your children when they are adults?  If not, keep pushing.  They will run away so far from you!  
If you do want a relationship back the F off.   How do you even know they aren't giving it their all?
Who are you?  Why aren't you famous if you were successfully pushed? Of maybe you weren't and blamed your parents?

You are mentally unwell[/quote]

You seem unhinged. Many parents don't push because they are lazy, self-absorbed, checked out or prefer to be friends with the children.

I was listening to some music on YouTube the other day, and there was a comment there along the lines of "I wish my parents forced me to play the piano when I was young". The comment was liked by something like 12,000 people. [/quote]

It is very common for people who cannot  articulate their position in a rational way to result to childish name calling.

Op's kids are not failing and yet they want them to work harder.  For what?  I stand by what I wrotepush too hard and your kids will run away.

And that youtube survey?    You can't take that seriously.
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