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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You're choosing to keep from him the fact you know about the affair--and that's a smart thing to do while you're consulting with attorneys, gathering whatever documents and info you need, and ensuring he can't drain accounts, etc. But in the meantime, are you and he still having sex? If so, I'd develop a "female problem" to avoid sex. And I'd get an STI test immediately. To be blunt, when a spouse is a cheater, it means the cheated-on spouse is effectively exposed to not only the AP but to anyone else the AP has had sex with. I know someone who caught an STI from her cheating DH, which he eventually admitted he'd caught fron the AP...or maybe from a work trip one night stand. Horndogs are going to think they're invincible....

Who knows how many other people both the AP and the cheating DH have been with? Protect yourself, and ensure your kid has a healthy mom, by getting tested an [/quote]

Sex isn’t a problem. We were geographically separate for many months, which I suspect is when he met AP. I’ve since moved to where he is but he’s never home.[/quote]

That's good, if you can avoid having sex with him, but you still need to test for STIs. Don't wait. You cannot know who else he's screwed, or how many people the AP has been with. I know DCUM generaly waves away concern about STIs but please learn from my friend's experience -- better to know early and start treatment early, or know that you are clear and can just move forward, than to find out when symptoms start. Your kid deserves a healthy mom who can focus on getting divorced and making a better life for both mom and kid. [/quote]

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