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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Having your own affair or front is the best way to get over your partner’s indiscretion.  Don’t tell them, just do it. 
Then, you no longer have the moral high ground and can more easily empathize with them and forgive.  If you hold yourself out as a saint because you didn’t cheat, good luck having your partner stick around. [/quote]

This is such a wrong advise. If you get robbed or burglarized, would going robbing someone makes you feel better? If you were raped as a child, would sexually assaulting another child cure the trauma? Absolutely not.[/quote]

Disagree. Half the time I’m convinced the DW is simply jealous. She gave up her career and identity. Her DH has a successful career, busy life and sex on the side. She’s jealous.

DW needs to have some fun. Get a lover and have some hot sex.

It will also help her relax and realize it’s just sex and not something to blow a family and finances over. [/quote]

I don’t disagree but most DW just do not have the same opportunity. We’re ground down physically by years of being the default parent. We don’t get the same opportunities for business travel. We do more childcare so we cannot just disappear for the night. And perhaps most importantly, most men are not actually that attuned to female pleasure so the odds of picking someone up for what we consider to be “good sex” are much lower. [/quote]

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