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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you said your mom did nothing for your grandmother when she was elderly. Are you unconsciously about to repeat a pattern? Because understand that you ARE burdening the neighbors. The posters on here telling you how to try to do something to help while setting reasonable boundaries are right. I say this from the perspective of having had to deal with this as a landlord in a small building where a long-time tenant developed dementia, hoarding and chronic incontinence, causing great distress for the other tenants. The family of the elderly tenant had an attitude similar to yours. It was left to everyone else to try to track down elder services, non-profits, etc. [/quote]
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