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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Right. She’s not responding to the mistake. She’s responding to [b]your likely underreaction[/b] and absence of a plan. The shop likely destroyed your engine. Match your wife’s concern because it’s warranted. Then make a plan and follow through so you’re made whole. That’s all you need to do. [/quote] So he doesn't manifest his displeasure in a way that satisfies her and therefore she is justified in taking it out on him? No wonder your husband wants a divorce.[/quote] You (and OP) really can’t focus on solutions can you? “Matching concern” means solving the problem. Sometimes I think guys like you have to make it about the emotion so you don’t have to actually do anything about it, or admit fault. Which is so strange. You’d rather fight than merely solve this and move on. What an odd way to live. [/quote]
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