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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I dunno.  I almost had an affair, and I wanted sex primarily.  My DH had stopped having sex with me completely and refused to do marriage counseling.  I didn’t want a new relationship, I didn’t want to leave my marriage, I just wanted hot sex with a guy who wanted me.  I felt like I was way too young to be celibate.

I thought a man in the same situation would understand and we could help each other carry on until our kids were older.  The man I was talking to was wildly appealing to me. I wanted him a lot!  But I decided against it in the end, and I’m glad. [/quote]

Having sex with a guy who can't keep his hands off you, and is good in bed, and truly enjoys watching you experience pleasure, and is caring and loving - is one the greatest experiences on earth. Don't you think you might regret giving that up? What's the worst that could have happened? The end of a marriage to a guy who doesn't care that much about you and certainly doesn't appreciate you?[/quote]

1.  Ha!  DH and I had that in the beginning, it’s not like I never experienced that.  He loves me in his own way.

2.  There are 5 kids between pAP and I.  I won’t hurt them.  That’s what kept me from doing it.  We are still friendly.  Maybe someday, maybe if we are both unmarried, but not while we are married to other people.  I am not interested in infidelity and that’s not who I am.  Believe me, I was so close, and that’s how I know I can’t do it.[/quote]

Good for you for not letting it cross THE LINE but didn’t you do something akin to cheating to let it get as close as it did? It sounds like you crossed other lines. Holding on to a maybe someday fantasy - wonder what your DH would say.[/quote]

Oh, DH knew/knows everything.  Like many men he doesn’t take an emotional entanglement particularly seriously.  He said it was hot another man wants his wife.  He admitted to me a little while ago that the whole thing turns him on a lot and we talk about it/fantasize while we are intimate.[/quote]

Lmao. Wow. Some of the people here I swear are a different breed. What kind of man gets off from another mother***r railing his wife and he is turned on by it. I wonder if he is more turned on by the guys d**k than anything else 🙁...Next time perhaps in ite him and ask him to bend over so the real man can rail him....And you call that thing your husband. I may as well line up to be the next one to run though you what's your number babe? We can invite the wuss to watch us how it should be done 😉[/quote]

So what if he does get turned on by men?  He satisfies me and I’m sure that “wuss” is getting more action than you ever will.[/quote]

How many women are okay being married to bisexual men? Y'all are killing me with your wokensss.[b] I best of you do a survey of married hetero women probably 9/10 would leave their husband if he turned out to be bi.[/b][/quote]

Why?  Who would throw a good marriage away over something like that?  If you’ve agreed to whatever sexual arrangement you both want and you’re happy, who cares?  Most of the couples in this board are miserable; maybe some wokeness is actually due.[/quote]

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