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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband never puts anything away and never throws anything out.  I have gotten "his" stuff down to our storage room/his hobby room and our garage, but disorganization and wasted space bugs me so much.

I don't mind cleaning and organizing, but the problem is he gets all upset when I do this and he refuses to do any organizing or cleaning himself.  he still has VHS tapes - stuff he copied from the TV!!! I have said, Can I throw these out?  And he will say, Oh, I will go through them, but he never does.  Years go by.  I say, do we need to keep this old broken VHS player?  Do we need to keep this old microwave that we haven't used in 10 years of marriage that is taking up space on the floor of the storage room?

He drives me crazy.  You can barely walk in the storage room or the garage.  The rest of the house is competely clutter free and clean.

I know I should give him this one room, but it is a wasted room. If it was cleaned and organized, we could actually use the room.  And if the garage were organized, we could park our cars in there!

Plus, what drives me bananas is the waste of money.  Because he cannot find anything, he is constantly buying more stuff/household supplies at Home depot.  Cans of paint; lightbulbs; car oil; doorknobs, anything and everything.

Are I being ridiculous for wanting him to help clean up his mess?[/quote]

same! I even built him a third story-office and big living room-its disgusting, filthy and cluttered, 2 year old toys when youngest is 10, garage a mess, he has to get my bike because i cant even get to it from clutter.[/quote]

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